{"id":16,"date":"2023-05-21T19:02:58","date_gmt":"2023-05-21T19:02:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/?p=16"},"modified":"2023-05-21T19:02:58","modified_gmt":"2023-05-21T19:02:58","slug":"kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdy se mu\u017e br\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed pocitem? Pod\u00edvejte se, kdy\u017e chlap ut\u00edk\u00e1 p\u0159ed pocitem."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Mnoho d\u016fvod\u016f m\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobit, \u017ee mu\u017ei jsou odta\u017eit\u00ed a defenzivn\u00ed ve vztahu k emoc\u00edm. A\u010dkoli je to p\u0159irozen\u00e1 vlastnost mu\u017e\u016f, m\u016f\u017ee to v\u00e9st k probl\u00e9m\u016fm v komunikaci a pocitu nejistoty ve vztaz\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se nec\u00edt\u00ed pohodln\u011b vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 emoce a nemohou se partnerce d\u00edvat do o\u010d\u00ed. Jin\u00ed pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed \u010das, aby p\u0159ijali n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 gesta. Nec\u00edt\u00ed se pohodln\u011b ve fyzick\u00e9m kontaktu a mohou m\u00edt pot\u00ed\u017ee s objet\u00edm nebo mazlen\u00edm. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei prost\u011b nejsou pohodln\u00ed v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti ostatn\u00edch a nemaj\u00ed radost z romantick\u00e9 ve\u010de\u0159e se svou partnerkou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I kdy\u017e je ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra nepohodl\u00ed spojen\u00e1 s sd\u00edlen\u00edm emoc\u00ed s ostatn\u00edmi norm\u00e1ln\u00ed pro mu\u017ee, m\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt probl\u00e9m, pokud trv\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkdy se mu\u017ei c\u00edt\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b a nekomfortn\u011b ve spole\u010dnosti sv\u00fdch partner\u016f. Je to norm\u00e1ln\u00ed pocit, ale tak\u00e9 nazna\u010duje, \u017ee se d\u011bje n\u011bco v\u00edc. Zde je p\u00e1r tip\u016f, jak si v\u0161imnout, \u017ee se c\u00edt\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b ve spole\u010dnosti sv\u00fdch partner\u016f a kdy mu\u017e br\u00e1n\u00ed se p\u0159ed emocemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Obsah<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Muzi_casto_jsou_pretizeni_emocemi\" >Mu\u017ei \u010dasto jsou p\u0159et\u00ed\u017eeni emocemi.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Muzi_se_casto_krci_pred_citlivosti\" >Mu\u017ei se \u010dasto kr\u010d\u00ed p\u0159ed citlivost\u00ed.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Nenut_ho_vyjadrovat_sve_pocity\" >Nenut ho vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 pocity.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Neprimo_mu_nerikej_co_citis\" >Nep\u0159\u00edmo mu ne\u0159\u00edkej, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Emocni_citlivost\" >Emo\u010dn\u00ed citlivost.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Pocitovani_zarlivosti\" >Poci\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rlivosti<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/cz\/obecne\/kdy-se-muz-brani-pred-pocitem-podivejte-se-kdyz-chlap-utika-pred-pocitem\/#Pocituji_tlak\" >Poci\u0165uj\u00ed tlak<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Muzi_casto_jsou_pretizeni_emocemi\"><\/span>Mu\u017ei \u010dasto jsou p\u0159et\u00ed\u017eeni emocemi. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e mu\u017e m\u00e1 pot\u00ed\u017ee vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 emoce a pot\u0159eby, m\u016f\u017ee se c\u00edtit p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00fd n\u011b\u017en\u00fdmi gesty. \u010casto se bude vyh\u00fdbat doteku partnerky a dokonce se m\u016f\u017ee fyzicky vzd\u00e1lit. V t\u011bchto situac\u00edch by mu\u017e m\u011bl b\u00fdt otev\u0159en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ke hovoru o sv\u00fdch pot\u0159eb\u00e1ch a touh\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Muzi_se_casto_krci_pred_citlivosti\"><\/span>Mu\u017ei se \u010dasto kr\u010d\u00ed p\u0159ed citlivost\u00ed. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Krom\u011b toho, \u017ee se mu\u017ei c\u00edt\u00ed nepohodln\u011b v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti sv\u00fdch partner\u016f, mohou tak\u00e9 poci\u0165ovat zneklidn\u011bn\u00ed spojen\u00e9 s projevy n\u011bhy. St\u00e1v\u00e1 se tak, proto\u017ee vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed t\u011bchto gest je pro n\u011b pova\u017eov\u00e1no za ohro\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed. Citliv\u00fd mu\u017e je ten, kter\u00fd se c\u00edt\u00ed slab\u00fd, a to nen\u00ed obraz, kter\u00fd by cht\u011bl prezentovat. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se dokonce c\u00edt\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b ve spole\u010dnosti sv\u00e9 partnerky, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed, \u017ee se d\u00edv\u00e1 na sv\u016fj odraz v zrcadle. To je zn\u00e1mka toho, \u017ee mu\u017e m\u00e1 pochybnosti o sv\u00e9 mu\u017enosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dekarzswarzedz.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/facet-i-uczucie.jpg\" alt=\"Kdy se mu\u017e br\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed pocitem?\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nenut_ho_vyjadrovat_sve_pocity\"><\/span>Nenut ho vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 pocity. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokud jsi citliv\u00fd mu\u017e, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit tlak na vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed sv\u00fdch emoc\u00ed. Abys usnadnil komunikaci o sv\u00fdch pocitech, nau\u010d se sni\u017eovat sv\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a nesoust\u0159e\u010f se na to, zda partner spl\u0148uje tv\u00e9 po\u017eadavky. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159ijmout, ale je to jedin\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak p\u0159ekonat tento druh probl\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Neprimo_mu_nerikej_co_citis\"><\/span>Nep\u0159\u00edmo mu ne\u0159\u00edkej, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Vyhn\u011bte se slov\u016fm jako &#8222;trapnost&#8221; nebo &#8222;zahanben\u00ed&#8221;. Ne\u0159\u00edkej, \u017ee se c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 h\u016f\u0159e ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed \u017eeny v \u017eivot\u011b mu\u017e\u016f ve tv\u00e9m okol\u00ed. Nau\u010d ho rozum\u011bt tv\u00fdm emoc\u00edm a pojmenov\u00e1vat je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Emocni_citlivost\"><\/span>Emo\u010dn\u00ed citlivost. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Mnoho mu\u017e\u016f m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m s vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00edm sv\u00fdch emoc\u00ed, zejm\u00e9na v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti ostatn\u00edch lid\u00ed. D\u011bje se tak, proto\u017ee maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si nezaslou\u017e\u00ed dobr\u00fd pocit a \u017ee je ostatn\u00ed nebudou ch\u00e1pat. Je to v\u0161ak myln\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, a hovo\u0159it s partnerem o sv\u00fdch nejistot\u00e1ch a pot\u0159eb\u00e1ch je prvn\u00edm krokem k zm\u011bn\u011b tohoto my\u0161len\u00ed. Pokud v\u00e1\u0161 mu\u017e nechce to ud\u011blat, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b z\u00e1pas\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi vlastn\u00edmi emocemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pocitovani_zarlivosti\"><\/span>Poci\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rlivosti <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei mohou poci\u0165ovat \u017e\u00e1rlivost, kdy\u017e jejich partnerky projevuj\u00ed z\u00e1jem o jin\u00e9 mu\u017ee. A\u010dkoli on nemus\u00ed tyto pocity vyjad\u0159ovat, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, abys si byla v\u011bdoma, \u017ee je pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1, abys nebyla necht\u011bn\u011b zran\u011bna. Nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159i setk\u00e1n\u00ed s jin\u00fdm p\u00e1nem je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby tv\u016fj partner rozum\u011bl, \u017ee nezrad\u00ed\u0161 jeho d\u016fv\u011bru. To plat\u00ed i pro jak\u00fdkoli jin\u00fd druh vztahu, a\u0165 u\u017e je to platonick\u00fd nebo sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pocituji_tlak\"><\/span>Poci\u0165uj\u00ed tlak <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkdy m\u016f\u017ee mu\u017e poci\u0165ovat tlak, aby projevoval p\u00e9\u010di. Paradoks spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee n\u011bkdy to opravdu nec\u00edt\u00ed. Proto je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 porozum\u011bt d\u016fvodu, pro\u010d tv\u016fj mu\u017e se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt citliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e obvykle, a zab\u00fdvat se t\u00edmto probl\u00e9mem. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se mohou c\u00edtit nejist\u011b, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed ned\u00e1vnou fotografii, na kter\u00e9 se l\u00edb\u00e1\u0161 s jin\u00fdm mu\u017eem. V takov\u00fdch situac\u00edch je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ho uklidnit a ujistit ho, \u017ee nem\u00e1 d\u016fvod c\u00edtit se vinn\u00fdm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei poci\u0165uj\u00ed trapen\u00ed a obavy z hodnocen\u00ed ostatn\u00edmi. Tv\u016fj partner se m\u016f\u017ee styd\u011bt za sv\u00e9 pocity, proto\u017ee se ob\u00e1v\u00e1, jak budou ostatn\u00ed na n\u011bj pohl\u00ed\u017eet. V n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee s n\u00edm n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku, pokud nem\u00e1 stejn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti jako ostatn\u00ed. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b rozhovor se partnerem o t\u011bchto obav\u00e1ch v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee poskytnout s\u00edlu p\u0159ekonat tyto pocity a pos\u00edlit v\u00e1\u0161 vztah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zda tv\u016fj partner pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 n\u011bkter\u00e9 z v\u00fd\u0161e uveden\u00fdch probl\u00e9m\u016f? Pokud si v\u0161imne\u0161 u sv\u00e9ho partnera n\u011bkter\u00fdch t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, abys se t\u00edm co nejd\u0159\u00edve zab\u00fdvala. D\u016fvodem je to, \u017ee pokud se probl\u00e9m nevy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee to v\u00e9st k rozpadu va\u0161eho vztahu. \u010c\u00edm d\u0159\u00edve si v\u0161imne\u0161 t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f, t\u00edm rychleji m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 jednat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pozn\u00e1mka: Je t\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee neexistuje jedno univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nap\u0159\u00edklad, pokud m\u00e1 tv\u016fj partner probl\u00e9m s pohodl\u00edm p\u0159i fyzick\u00e9m kontaktu, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 zkou\u0161et r\u016fzn\u00e1 gesta, dokud se nec\u00edt\u00ed voln\u011bji. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b to bude provediteln\u00e9 pouze tehdy, pokud bude ochoten se otev\u0159\u00edt a nav\u00e1zat s tebou komunikaci.<\/p>\n<div style='text-align:center' class='yasr-auto-insert-visitor'><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mnoho d\u016fvod\u016f m\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobit, \u017ee mu\u017ei jsou odta\u017eit\u00ed a defenzivn\u00ed ve vztahu k emoc\u00edm. A\u010dkoli je to p\u0159irozen\u00e1 vlastnost mu\u017e\u016f, m\u016f\u017ee to v\u00e9st k probl\u00e9m\u016fm v komunikaci a pocitu nejistoty ve vztaz\u00edch. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se nec\u00edt\u00ed pohodln\u011b vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 emoce a nemohou se partnerce d\u00edvat do o\u010d\u00ed. 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